- Hollywood power couple Warren Beatty and Annette Bening are parents to four children, all of whom have carved their paths in life.
- Their oldest son Stephen is a transgender man, who started transitioning when he was only 14.
- What would he look like if he’d not transitioned? Using AI technology, we provide an alternate reality where Stephen never embarked on his gender transition, presenting him as you’ve never seen him before.
Warren Beatty poses with wife Annette Bening and children Isabel, Ella, Benjamin and Kathlyn at the 27th Annual Kennedy Center Honors at U.S. Department of State, December 4, 2004 in Washington, DC. | Source: Getty Images
Stephen Ira Beatty is today a recognized writer, performer, and filmmaker. His journey mirrors his famous parents, who’ve been in the spotlight for decades. But where did it all begin?
Stephen is the son of famous actor Warren Beatty, renowned for his contributions to the film industry. Beatty’s iconic roles include in classics such as “Bonnie and Clyde,” “Heaven Can Wait,” “Reds,” and “Bugsy.” His portrayals often feature politically engaged, somewhat outcast, yet charismatic heroes, distinguishing him among Hollywood’s elite.
Warren Beatty at Beverly Wilshire, A Four Seasons Hotel on January 11, 2020 in Beverly Hills, California. | Source: Getty Images
On the flip side, Stephen’s mother, Annette Bening, had also made a name herself in the industry, appearing in films such as “Coastal Disturbances,” and “The Gritters.” The pair’s paths crossed in 1990 after they were introduced to each other during the casting of the mafia drama “Bugsy.”
Annette Bening and Warren Beatty attends the 73rd Annual Tony Awards at Radio City Music Hall on June 09, 2019 in New York City | Source: Getty Images
Despite Beatty having a ladies’ man reputation, Bening gave him a chance, and they went out for lunch. Beatty admits that it was love at first sight for him.
Barely a year after they first met, the lovebirds walked down the aisle in a private wedding attended only by the three of them — Beatty, Bening, and their then two-month-old daughter Kathlyn Bening Beatty(now Stephen).
For the longest time, Bening knew she wanted to be a mom, and when the chance at a family came, she did not hesitate to make her dream come true.
She and Beatty went on to welcome three more kids, Ben, Isabel, and Ella, all of whom are now grown up and have carved their own distinct paths in life, with their parents’ encouragement.
Annette Bening (left), Warren Beatty (right) with children Kathlyn, Benjamin and Isabel | Source: Getty Images
Lily Collins, who worked with Beatty on “Rules Don’t Apply,” praised the couple for their parenting approach, saying, “Annette and Warren have created this amazing family who are, for all intents and purposes, ‘normal,’ and that’s a testament to how they both raised them.’”
Actress Annette Bening sits with her children Ben, Isabel, Ella, and Kathlyn on May 21, 2005 at UC Berkeley in Berkeley, California | Source: Getty Images
This nurturing home environment has also shaped their broader advocacy efforts. In addition to her successful career and role as a mother, Bening is a vocal advocate for transgender rights. This commitment holds personal significance as her son Stephen is transgender.
Born Kathlyn Elizabeth, Stephen began his transition to his true self at 14, adopting the name Stephen Ira. But what if he never transitioned from female to male? What would he look like now? Read on to find out.
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Embracing his identity, Stephen has become an articulate advocate for the transgender community, channeling his experience into activism and poetry.
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His writing, which includes an “Answer to Seven Questions” about his gender identity on the “WeHappyTrans” website, reflects a blend of wit, depth, and eloquence.
Bening’s admiration for her son is unmistakable. She’s described him as an “articulate and thoughtful person,” her words showing the deep pride she has for all her children.
Stephen has navigated the complex transitioning journey with what Bening calls “great style and great intelligence.” He is also lauded for his thoughtfulness and ability to articulate his experience.
A gifted writer, Stephen has garnered recognition for his literary talent, articulating his thoughts with striking clarity. Bening, openly marveled at his gift for expression, describing him as “incredibly brilliant.”
She spoke of the great impact his writing has had on her, especially a recent poem featured in “The Paris Review.” This piece, a recount and reflection of his journey and identity, left her deeply moved, finding it nothing short of “extraordinary.”
What Stephen Ira would look like if he never transitioned, via AI | Source: Midjourney
Away from Stephen’s achievements, Bening also noted how much learning the family underwent, in a bid to understand and support Stephen through his transition.
What Stephen Ira would look like if he never transitioned, via AI | Source: Midjourney
She admitted, “I was very ignorant about what that meant to be a trans kid. I, like every other parent, want to protect my kids and make sure they’re OK, and I had a lot of learning to do. I didn’t always know what to do, and I didn’t always make the right choices because of my own ignorance, but we got through it.”
What Stephen Ira would look like if he never transitioned, via AI | Source: Midjourney
Her approach has been one of love and protection, and she admitted to seeking professional advice whenever they needed it. And while their status as public figures could have led them to share their story widely, they chose a more private path, respecting Stephen’s autonomy.
What Stephen Ira would look like if he never transitioned, via AI | Source: Midjourney
Despite her son’s public achievements, Bening emphasizes the importance of privacy and the family’s choice to go through their personal experiences away from the public eye. “This is the most I’ve ever talked about it because I’m a private person, and my son is private,” Bening stated, affirming her son’s right to his own story.
What Stephen Ira would look like if he never transitioned, via AI | Source: Midjourney
Amidst Bening’s advocacy for private family life, her approach to motherhood involves embracing the concept of letting go. When she was younger, she often thought she could shield her children from hardships.
What Stephen Ira would look like if he never transitioned, via AI | Source: Midjourney
She now recognizes the notion as “ridiculous,” admitting that her children “have to go through their struggles.” However, she reiterated that they are all doing well and very much their own people now.
What Stephen Ira would look like if he never transitioned, via AI | Source: Midjourney
Stephen is now 32 and has already established himself and carved out his own path. Still, he continues to advocate for transgender rights, alongside his mother.
What Stephen Ira would look like in his 20s and 30s if he never transitioned, via AI | Source: Midjourney
Bening urges everyone to find someone close to them — a neighbor, teacher, doctor, a person who works at the grocery store — because then, people will understand that there is no need to judge. “We have to love and understand. That’s how I feel,” she added.
What Stephen Ira would look like if he never transitioned, via AI | Source: Midjourney
This exploration into a what-if scenario brought to life by AI, is a reminder of the journeys individuals undertake to become who they truly are. The images we’ve presented offer a glimpse into a reality that was never Stephen’s to live, highlighting the courage it takes to embrace one’s true identity in the face of societal norms.
What Stephen Ira would look like if he never transitioned, via AI | Source: Midjourney
While these alternate portraits capture our curiosity, they also deepen our appreciation for Stephen’s authentic self and the supportive family standing with him. The Warren Beatty-Bening story, therefore, isn’t just about fame or advocacy; it’s a powerful affirmation of self-discovery and the unconditional love that makes it possible.
