How to Approach Cabin Crew if You Fancy Them

Fancying a cabin crew member is not uncommon, given their role as the face of the airline. However, according to one experienced flight attendant, there’s a right way and a wrong way to express your interest.

The Reality of Cabin Crew Life

Being a flight attendant is often seen as a glamorous profession, with crew members embodying the airline’s brand. This visibility can attract attention from passengers, especially those with some liquid courage from airport bars. But there’s a time and place for everything, including chatting up the cabin crew.

TikTok Advice from an Experienced Flight Attendant

Tyra, a flight attendant with six years of experience at Delta Air Lines, took to TikTok under the handle @wheelsupwithtyra to share her thoughts on the matter. In a video viewed over 25,000 times, she offers straightforward advice to passengers who might fancy a crew member.

“Here’s a little 101 tip on how not to hit on a flight attendant,” she begins. “Do not hit on a flight attendant in flight… during flight, whatever. Do not do that because you are making it awkward.” Tyra emphasizes that flight attendants are required to be polite, making unwanted advances particularly uncomfortable.

The Proper Approach

For those still keen on making a move, Tyra suggests a more considerate approach. “If you want to shoot your shot, your best bet is just handing your number over to the flight attendant when you are getting off that plane,” she advises. This method avoids creating awkward situations and gives the flight attendant the choice to follow up if interested.

One TikTok user responded with defiance, saying they would “shoot my shot when I feel like it,” to which Tyra replied, “It’s just advice… but I’d say chances are higher if you’re considerate of her work space and shoot your shot once you’re leaving.”

Conclusion

Approaching a flight attendant you fancy should be done with respect and consideration for their work environment. Following Tyra’s advice, handing over your number as you deplane is a polite and non-intrusive way to express your interest. Remember, maintaining professionalism and respecting personal boundaries can increase your chances of a positive response.